Showing posts with label self. Show all posts
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Wednesday, 30 June 2021

6 BOOKS I WISH I READ EARLIER IN MY LIFE !

 1.   HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE


•       Don’t criticize, condemn or complain.

•       Remember names and make the person feel important.

•       These practical tips along with many others are worth mastering.

 

2.   MAN’S SEARCH FOR MEANING



•       He who has a why to live for can bear almost anyhow.

•       You can resist your environment’s influence.

•       There is a meaning in suffering.

 

3.   THE POWER OF NOW


•       The power of now takes the best life lessons from wide-ranging shows you a super applicable way to integrate them into your life.

 

4.   7 HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE


·       An absolute masterpiece with easy to follow tips, this book is useful for both businesses and individuals.

 

5.   THE POWER OF HABIT


•       Habits plays such an important role in shaping our future and this book will explain exactly why and how to use your habits effectively.

 

6.   THE SUBTLE ART OF NOT GIVING A F*CK


•       A guide to dealing with life when things get f*ucked up this book is all about how to handle life’s inevitable disappointments and painful moments and keep moving forward in life no matter what.

 



Tuesday, 29 June 2021

6 WAYS TO CLEAN YOUR MIND


 1.    Start unfollowing people who do not add value in your life, who do not make you feel empowered, inform or inspired and in a company or group of people who do not motivate you to do better.

2.    Being selectively social means intentionally keeping your social circle small because the more people you carry the more unclear your mind will be.

3.    Always live in the moment and remember you cannot change the past but you can shape the present. Stay grounded in the present and shift your focus to things that are within your control don’t waste time and energy on the things you cannot control.

4.    Eat healthy be fit. Now is not the time to bring eat and take out all of your emotions on food. If you do so ensure that you being healthy.

5.    Meditate alone, enjoy alone, enjoy some self-time, and practice meditation in a dark room at the midnight while listening to nature sounds such as thunder and rain.

6.    Take yourself at a trip enjoy the sights and sounds, soak into the serene environment, forget about your city life and all of your worries.

6 TIPS TO MAKE YOURSELF SMARTER


 1.    Challenge yourself always to try new things, to improve some skills, to get knowledge about the things you love to do. The more you will know, the more ideas you can get.

2.    Stay curious to know more to ask questions about how and when this incident or situation happened.

3.    Having a conversation with someone smarter than you and more intelligent than you through which you can learn more and do more in life.

4.    Don’t hide your faults are opened to everyone and never prove yourself intelligent. Instead, accept it and learn the ways to overcome it.

5.    Focus on one task at a time doesn’t involve yourself in too many things and this surely increases your productivity and efficiency making you smarter.

6.    Meditate and take time alone to know how your mind works and find out your thinking pattern.

Sunday, 27 June 2021

5 TIPS TO REVITALIZE MINDSET PHILOSOPHY

 

1.    Every action doesn’t require a reaction. Sometimes silence is the better option. The problem itself is not big but how we think and react causes problems.

2.    It is better to focus on the things you are capable of or you love to do avoid fantasies about the things that don’t exist.

3.    Always be flexible no matter the situation is you have to adapt yourself to easily cope up with any change.

4.    Having a mindset of seeking constant knowledge don’t stop or say I have knowledge no you are wrong you will keep learning things till your last breath.

5.    Be Understandable always according to a person to person you have to be on their level to understand the things.

 

Saturday, 26 June 2021

6 LIFE CHANGING TRUTHS !

 

1.   When your mind is preoccupied or something is stuck in your mind then it is not possible to address your thoughts and explore your mind. When your mind is free then you can think and think about your life.

2.   Most people are scared of being lonely, they don’t want to be alone they always wanted to be with someone or depend on others hence they fill the spaces with outside noise instead of their inner voice.

3.   Happiness and success are not values they just give you piece of mind and having accomplished feelings and they are the results of values that are chosen.

4.   Prioritize values above culture, morals over validation.

5.   Give yourself time and space to clear out the dust that clog your mind and block many things in your life.

6.   If it cost your morality then please don’t try to strive to fit in.

 

Thursday, 24 June 2021

7 CONFIDENCE HACKS YOU WILL WISH YOU KNEW SOONER

 

1.   ALWAYS KNOW THAT EVERYONE IS AS HUMAN AS YOU ARE

When you meet someone you look up to, you may always think that they are better than me and feel discouraged to try and to be liked. Always remember that other people are not different from you, er are all same.

They also have fears and doubts about themselves and for sure they are exactly like you in their careers or in life.

 

2.   MONITOR YOUR ACHIEVEMENTS

Sometimes life will hit you so hard and you will get broken into pieces and start ruining your self-confidence. Getting self-doubt out from your system and start reminding yourself of achievements you have in past and keep tracking those winning moments of your life in a notebook.


3.   PRACTICE

The best way to get rid of anxiety and depression is to know that you are preparing for a task ahead. You cannot discount the importance of training. It can be in your exam, presentation, or a sports tournament you will need a practice that will increase your confidence.

 

4.   FEEL MORE CONFIDENT

Our look is what people notice first about us and it same as what you notice in other people so you have to be fit and start grooming properly to create an impact. So always look your best and be fit so you can look good and feel confident about yourself.

 

5.   GIVE YOURSELF ENOUGH

Sometimes you can be your own critic while you give allowances for mistakes to the people surrounding you, get rid of self-depression because it can hurt your confidence more than any criticism you get from other people.

 

6.   TAKE ACTION

Don’t get stuck in planning because it will become crucial sometimes. You need to execute your plans. The longer the plan will stay in your head the more chances of self-doubt will kick you before even start. So don’t overthinks just take action and the more times you will do something the more confidence you will get.

 

7.   BELIEVE IN YOUR DREAMS

It’s so easy to say but hard to believe because reaching success is a dream deep down inside and the person is not fully sure if their dreams can become a reality or not. If you don’t believe in your dreams someone will hire you to make their dreams true.

5 REASONS YOU WILL NOT FACED A COMMUNICATION GAP IN A RELATIONSHIP !

 


o   Communication gap means a gap in a relationship. Now, you will say your love is so strong. It will never fade because of communication. But tell me that where did that love come from?

Because you have communicated because you had talked a lot, because you have created that great bond that leads to high bonding with the help of communication with them.

o   Communication the gap means a lot of misunderstandings, doubts, insecurities, negative thoughts that lead to breakup ultimately.

o   Communication gap means your partner could be diverted to someone else who is giving them great efforts, care, love, and that even leads to break up sometimes.

o   It means you will eventually lose the great bond you were sharing with your partner and then even if you try everything to make them feel that you really love them. They won’t get convinced because in that gap they realized that they are not made for you and that even leads to a breakup.

o   Communication gap ultimately means a slow poison to your relationship that you can’t see but let me tell you soon your relationship is going to die if you still don’t pay attention to them.

5 THINGS TO KNOW WHEN TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY!

 

 


Ø You are not responsible for the wounds and things you have received in your childhood but you are responsible for healing them and take a responsibility to own it.

Ø You are responsible for the way you respond to other people but not responsible of other people’s immaturity and rudeness.

Ø You are not responsible for what other people say or think about you but you are definitely responsible for whether or not you will be reduced by their opinions.

Ø You are not responsible for every negative thoughts that pops into your head but you are responsible for whether or not you will act on them

Ø You are responsible for setting clear and healthy boundaries, but you are not responsible for people’s negative reaction on them.

 

 

Wednesday, 23 June 2021

6 SIGN YOU HAVE LOW SELF-ESTEEM



1.    SCARED

You are scared that people will not accept you, who you are, what you think do or say you done need to think like that. First you matters than world or any other human being exist be enough to say and feel that I am enough for myself whether anyone accepts me or not.

 

2.    REACT

This is main problem that you start reacting emotionally rather than objectively. Yeah I know sometimes it’s good to take decision on the basis of emotions but not regularly.

 

3.    APOLOGIZE

You will tend to apologize too much or start saying I am wrong please forgive me, speak your opinion or ask for a favor or existence matters a lot and like that your experience and opinions also for something.

 

4.    TROUBLE

You are having a trouble saying no to things you don’t want to do. Start learning to say “no” because you cannot accept the things you don’t want in life.

 

 

5.    AFRAID

You are always afraid to contribute your opinion in a conversation because you keep on thinking that I don’t know this, I cannot contribute, everyone start saying you don’t know anything start believing in yourself whatever you think and say will matter.

 

6.    IMPROVE

You can improve your self-esteem by meditation you have to practice start thinking with your mind that I, myself matters I am a human being I exist I have my opinions my character which will matter if you want to improve your self-esteem just be confident and start believing that I come first and then world comes. If I don’t believe in myself world won’t believe in me.

6 RULES TO GROW IN LIFE

 


1.  Know that your only competition is with who you were yesterday not with the people around you if you want to grow in life just start competing with yourself see yourself in a mirror and ask where I am lacking and what the things I will improve to grow.

2.  Earn, save and invest before you spend but in real scenario we do totally opposite earn, spend and then nothing left to invest. We have to decrease our expenses or increase income.

3.  Avoid negative people avoid negative company life is too short you need positive people and company around you to grow yourself.

4.  If you don’t go after what you want you will not achieve what you want in life don’t give excuses to yourself that this is difficult I don’t have time you just need to make your mind ready than body will follow the instructions.

5.  See failures as a beginning not an end nothing comes easy in start you have fight with the world and yourself and have to struggle a lot and failure is a journey towards success.

6.  What you are doing on daily basis your habits will decide your future you need to read books and podcast to grow yourself.

Tuesday, 22 June 2021

5 THINGS THAT CAN MAKE YOU WAY MORE PRODUCTIVE

 


1.TASK

Daily you have to make to-do list and write down the daily task and then make 3-5 task a priority no matter what happens you have to perform that task.

 

2.FOCUS

get a focusing app on your computer which will track you how much you are spending on apps that are just wasting your precious time so focused if you want to become productive.

 

3.DO NOT DISTURB

Turn on do not disturb on your phone because nowadays phone is a big distraction in our life we busy in important work pop-ups or notification comes we start watching and reading different stuff which will waste our time.

 

4.DISABLE

Disable or freeze some unuseful applications from your phone because these apps are not adding value in your life just distracting your goals.

 

5.STOP CHECKING

Stop checking your phone 100x a day because it is useless if u want to be a productive person you have to eliminate these things from your life.

6 IMPORTANT GUIDELINES IN LIFE

 1. THOUGHTS


When you are alone mind your thoughts because when a person is alone different things are going on in humans' mind negative and positive. A person has to stick his/her thought especially when alone. Evil forces attack a person when they are alone.

 

 

2. TONGUE



When you are with your friends mind your tongue because in friends we cannot control our tongue which cause problems in our life.

 

3. TEMPER



When you are angry control your temper and this is a most difficult thing to do because we can lose our temper when things are getting opposite in respect of what we want in our life and this creates a negative effect on our minds.

 

4. BEHAVIOR




Mind your behavior when you are in a group because a bad behavior will make you alone nobody wants to talk to you or be with you.

 

5. EMOTIONS

Emotions can control you and make you dependent on them so you have to control them and never make any decisions of life-based on emotions.

 

6. EGO

Ego will destroy everything especially your relationships because we have an attitude and we say what we are saying is right and every around you is not right or fool.

When a god start blessing you mind your ego starting helping more and more people and make yourself more down to earth and eventually his blessing starts increasing.

Tuesday, 15 June 2021

Things to do as a freelancer to earn more than $100k in a year.

 


Freelance is the future and the world is already paying close attention to the unpredicted revenue numbers taken by freelancers all over the world in the last few years.  Freelancers are self-employed they are not working for someone they are working for themselves.

Freelancing not only gives one freedom to choose their work hours, but it also aspires them to do more because the amount of money one can earn is dependent on the amount of work one can deliver. Over the years, I’ve realized. Your success as a freelancer is largely dependent on your attitude towards work. The sooner you realize, there is a huge responsibility falling square on your shoulders to make ends meet, the better you are destined to work hard and work towards achieving your financial goals.

 

FOCUS

First of all you need to focus on yourself and think what suits you to do as a freelancer as you are working for yourself you have to think crystal clear. Many freelancers in the world can’t focus on things and after that they claim it very hard to earn money online.

Nothing in this world is easy or difficult but you have to learn that skill and polish it by practicing day in and day out and you will be successful in your field.

 

TIME

Time management is the key to get success in every part of life because without managing time or showing careless attitudes you cannot get desired results. So manage daily working hours to work and be consistent no day gap.


MANAGEMENT OF WORK

Manage your work like a pro lack of management leads you to failure. This field is for self-employed peoples who are working for themselves so nobody is there to teach you to manage your work you have to do by yourself.


MOTIVATION

Motivation is the biggest problem of freelancers because they start without learning any skill and failed and gets demotivated and start saying to themselves this is very difficult I worked so hard but gets nothing. Let me clear you one thing some rare people or people who are extremely lucky gets success in start but could not survive because they are lacking in skills.

You have to take your failure as a lesson to improve where you are lacking improve that and you will be a tough competitor to handle.


NEVER GIVE UP

Never ever give up on anything success takes time you just have to believe in yourself, believe in GOD, believe in your hard work and patience is key to get remarkable results.

 

Now, in simple words if you want to be a freelancer you need to earn money online in huge amount you just have to just sit and relax takes some time and think about your niche (field) in which u want to start.

Than identify your skills in which thing you are good at.

For example: blogging, content writing, digital products, affiliated marketing programs, social media marketing and so on.

If you have not above mentioned skills they just pick up your phone start making your own videos and put it on YouTube and let me clear you this will takes time to grow to give you money but you have to be consistent and miracles will start happening and you will start getting sponsorship and brand endorsement. So $100k is not the only target you can much more than that. Just dreams big and get big. 

BOSS OR LEADER DIFFERENCE ???

 Boss and leader both are different entity both the people have different authorities and goals people are might confuse about them. we will discuss the major differences between them.


BOSS



A boss is the top of an association, a person to whom the representatives report on a task. He practices power over representatives, gives them errands and guidelines, and takes choices pretty much all authoritative issue.

 

In the advanced time, in an authoritative progressive system, there is no conventional assignment, for example, 'supervisor' however the term commonly calls attention to a person who is in control in charge of the issues in his association. A boss could likewise be an administrator, a chief, or a director with numerous individuals straightforwardly answering to him.

 

An awful boss can make workers' life hopeless. Individuals don't leave occupations, they leave poisonous work societies. An awful culture is created by the chief. A terrible supervisor can destroy individuals' vocations. Be that as it may, a decent manager can infuse a great deal of eagerness and trust in workers.

LEADER

 


As the title recommends, a leader is one who leads from the front. It is a title related with a person. A leader shows the path as well as comes in front and leads a bunch of individuals.

 

A leader impacts individuals and motivates them towards the achievement of objectives. A leader is somebody who has a major vision. They are consistently self-motivated, focused on an objective, and work persistently towards accomplishing it. A leader additionally sets a model. Individuals follow a leader since they are shown a bearing.

 

Leader pays attention to their adherents. Leaders who don't listen are encircled by individuals who have nothing to say.

Saturday, 12 June 2021

How to deal with depression and anxiety



If you’ve ever experienced anxiety and depression — in the clinical sense, I mean — you’ll know that they can feel really different with anxiety, you’re all ramped up and with depression, you’re very, very down.

Yet they tend to go together and a lot of medications, especially certain types of antidepressants, can be used to treat both. We still don’t know a ton about how exactly anxiety and depression work in the brain.

How antidepressants work to treat them. But over time, psychologists have come to realize that the two types of conditions are surprisingly similar. They may feel very different in the moment.

But they actually have a lot of symptoms in common, and involve some very similar thought patterns. They might even have similar brain chemistry. So if you’re looking to understand a little more about how anxiety and depression manifest themselves. Whether for yourself or for someone else in your life those connections are a good place to start.

Depression and anxiety aren’t really specific disorders — they’re generic terms for types of disorders. But the most common, and most closely linked, are major depressive disorder, or MDD, and generalized anxiety disorder, or GAD.

In any given year in the U.S., where it’s easiest to find detailed statistics, about 7% of the population will have MDD, and about 3% will have GAD.

Lots of those people have both: About 2/3 of people with major depression also have some kind of anxiety disorder and about 2/3 of people with generalized anxiety disorder also had major depression. And whether you have one or the other or both, the same medications are often at the top of the list to help treat it — usually antidepressants.

Unsurprisingly, psychologists have noticed these statistics. But for a long time, we’ve thought of generalized anxiety and major depression as very different things, and understandably so.

Probably the most noticeable symptom of anxiety is arousal, which in psychology is a technical term rather than a specifically sexual thing.

It basically just means being on high alert whether psychologically, with increased awareness, or physically, with things like a racing heart and sweaty palms.

Arousal isn’t part of major depression, though and there’s a key symptom of MDD that doesn’t usually show up in generalized anxiety: low positive affect, which is the technical term for not getting much pleasure out of life and feeling lethargic and just kind of blah.

So there are important differences between anxiety and depression, which is part of why they’re still considered separate classes of disorders.

But when you look at the other symptoms, you start to realize that major depression and generalized anxiety have almost everything else in common.

There’s restlessness, fatigue, irritability, problems with concentration, sleep disturbances … the list goes on and that’s just in the official diagnostic criteria.

So for decades, psychologists have been examining the models they use to describe anxiety and depression in the brain to see if they point to a similar source for both types of disorders.

They’ve come up with lots of different ideas, as researchers do, but the most common ones tend to center around the fight or flight response to stress.

Fight or flight kicks in when you’re confronted with something your mind sees as a threat, and it automatically prepares you to either fight or run away and when you think about it, anxiety and depression are just different types of flight.

Psychologists often characterize anxiety as a sense of helplessness, at its core, and depression as a sense of hopelessness.

Anxiety might feel like you’re looking for ways to fight back.

But part of what makes it a disorder is that it’s not a short-lived feeling that’s easily resolved once you have a plan Of course, as with all things mental health, anxiety disorders can be deeply personal and won’t feel the same for everybody.

But clinical anxiety does tend to be more pervasive.

The worry sticks around and starts to take over your life because it doesn’t feel like something you can conquer. So anxiety and depression might just be slightly different ways of expressing the same flight response: helplessness or hopelessness and maybe that’s part of why they so often go together.

That connection also shows up on the biochemical side of the stress response. There are a lot of hormones involved in this response, and their effects interact in super complex ways that scientists still don’t fully understand. But both depressive and anxiety disorders are closely associated with an oversensitive stress response system.

Researchers think that’s one reason both of these types of disorders are so much more common in people who’ve experienced major stresses like trauma or childhood abuse.

Those stressors could make their stress response system more sensitive. The main hormones involved aren’t always the same, but the changes can cause some of the same symptoms  problems with sleep, for example.

So anxiety and depression seem to be two sides of a similar reaction to stress, in terms of both thought processes and hormones Still, that doesn’t really explain why some antidepressants can treat both anxiety and depression.

Because those medications primarily affect neurotransmitters, the molecules your brain cells use to send messages to each other. If you thought we had a lot left to learn about how the stress response works, we know even less about what the brain chemistry of anxiety and depression looks like, or how antidepressants help.

But if the thought processes and physical responses that go along with these disorders aren’t quite as different as they seem on the surface, it makes sense that the brain chemistry would be similar, too. And that’s exactly what scientists have found.

More specifically, lots of studies have pointed to lower levels of the neurotransmitter known as serotonin as a major factor in both anxiety and depression.

Researchers have even identified some more specific cellular receptors that seem to be involved in both. There’s also some evidence that the way the brain handles another neurotransmitter, norepinephrine, can be similar in both anxiety and depression.

Since most antidepressants work by increasing serotonin levels, and some of them also affect norepinephrine that could explain why they’re so helpful for both anxiety and depression. Although again, there’s a lot we don’t know about their exact mechanisms.

Ultimately, there’s no denying that in the moment, anxiety and depression can seem like very different feelings and if someone has both types of disorders  well, it’s easy to see how that could feel overwhelming.

Like, it’s hard enough treating generalized anxiety or major depression on their own and it’s true that it is often harder to treat these conditions when someone has both. But maybe not twice as hard. After all, anxiety and depressive disorders have a lot in common, from their symptoms to the basic brain chemistry behind them to some of the treatments that can help.

The fact that they often go together can be really tough. But understanding more about why that is has also pointed us toward better treatments and       more effective therapies that really can help.

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