The more you hold them, the more they're going to
feel suffocated, the more you give attention the more you'll be ignored, the
more you'll love, the more you will get hurt. Everything must be balanced either
it’s a diet or a love. This is how life works.
Ø By focusing on yourself.
Ø By not complaining and comparing for what you don’t have.
Ø By not crying what already gone.
Ø By learning new every day.
Ø By doing hard work.
Ø By self-love and self-care.
Ø By not thinking about past and future just make you
present best.
Ø They start caring about you.
Ø They don’t want to go for other options.
Ø They want to know you more by getting in touch with
you every time.
Ø They start feeling pain when they see you in pain.
Ø They make you feel positive and happy most of the
times.
Ø They keep a contact you don’t have to crave them for
attention.
Ø They trust you more than anything.
Ø You feel relaxed and open up your heart in front of
them.
Ø They help you out without even asking.
Ø They keep a check on you all the time like a
detective.
Ø They check your phone whenever you meet.
Ø They will check your social media activities.
Ø They will take every decisions of your life.
Ø They make big issue on small things.
Ø They never give you space on your own privacy.
Ø They expect you to give them every smallest detail
about them.
Ø They can’t trust you completely.
Ø Go to work 20 minutes early daily.
Ø Get rid of toxic relationships.
Ø Don’t accept bullshit in your life.
Ø Hold yourself accountable.
Ø Don’t hang out with losers.
Ø Don’t take everything of life personally.
Ø If someone leaves don’t try to find out problems in
you don’t ever think like that.
Ø Be responsible for your feelings and decisions of
your life.
Ø Have space to heal yourself.
Ø Try to control your feelings.
Ø Collect ideas and thoughts that tend to flush out
from your mind too fast.
Ø Make a daily habit to read because it is the best
investment you make for your future. Daily make a habit to read at least 30 min
per day.
Ø Plan your day and analyze it before going to sleep
what you have done your whole day. If the things that have done is beneficial for
me and other or not. Whether adding value in my life and others or not. So you
have to think about that and start working on those things.
Ø Writing your own thoughts makes you to achieve them
because when you start writing which is in your mind the universe is making you
to write your own future from your own self make a habit to write.
Ø Fear of change.
Ø Living in the past.
Ø Overthinking.
Ø Be afraid of being different and unique.
Ø Thinking you’re not good enough.
Ø Thinking you have no purpose in life.
1.
Stalking them
every day and not blocking them.
2.
Talking their
updates and giving them updates.
3.
Showing off to
get their attention back.
4.
Checking their
last seen.
5.
Expecting them
to check your story.
6.
Expecting a
closure.
7.
Not accepting
the break up or divorce.
8.
Expecting them
to come back.
To delete especially those digital memories from
your mind it might be easy and even it will be tough for you but we have to do
it to grow in life after making your mind clear with past and bad memories.
There is no button to press that you
have pressed once and you are done with deleting that memory forever.
Memories are causing problems in your
life which are making you upset, giving you overthinking, anxiety and stress, and
giving you sleepless nights.
You need to do is to make new memories. Now
you are thinking that it is a joke??? no at all.
You have noticed that when you are
trying to be happy, chilling, excited about doing something, and exploring the
things you actually like, and then you did to focus on old memories. Because you
are busy in making new memories with your work with learning new hobbies and
spending your life with quality people.
MORAL OF THE STORY
If you keep holding those little and old
memories which are keeping you in pain. You have to run away from yourself to
make new memories that can completely transform your life. I know it will be
tough at the start but as you practice daily you will be a changed human being.
Nothing can stop you.
Because you are clear now and you don’t need
memories that destroy you.
Don’t change your personality to impress someone else who doesn’t give a shit about you. Those who want to get impressed by you will get impressed naturally by the way you are.
No matter what people say the sole thing that matters is what your closest people believe you. If you're the love of their eyes then trust me you've got won the planet. Don’t change yourself for someone they have to accept the way you are.
Keep shinning and keep growing and be yourself.
1. CONSCIENCE & EMOTIONS.
2. OPENNESS & BOUNDARIES.
3. HEALTH & WEALTH.
4. PERSONAL LIFE & SOCIAL LIFE.
5. MIND & BODY.
6. RESPECT & TOLERANCE.
7. WASTING TIME & PATIENCE.
·
Have
space to heal rather than trying to fix everything at once.
·
If
someone leaves, trust their absence is clearing space for better people.
·
Be
responsible for your feelings and decisions and that’s how you counter
attachments.
·
Don’t
take everything personally sometimes people project their faults into you.
·
Its
wrong to have feelings but to learn to control them helps a lot.
·
If
you want something badly work for it pray for it and wait for it and get it.
Ø Save money every week it doesn’t matter how much
just save it.
Ø Listen to your parent’s advice at the end of the
day they are the only ones who wants the best for you.
Ø Choose your friends wisely as you are the product
of your environment.
Ø Learn to be alone and independent. It’s a skill
only few can mastered.
Ø Educate yourself enough read and write. Be healthy
& look after your body.
Ø Don’t wait for someone to love you. Learn to love
yourself first.
Ø You will be ok.
Ø With time things will get better no matter how terrible
your situation is right now there will be always a light at the end of tunnel. Trust
me you can make it through anything whatever you want in life.
Ø The sacrifices you are making right now will pay off you
in the future. It can be difficult to imagine how making small sacrifices today
can play off in the long run and small changes will give you compound effect in
future.
Ø Never compromise on quality because of quantity life is
all about quality not quantity. One quality experience can change your life
drastically.
Ø As you get older in life you start realizing that your
health and peace of mind is most important things so you have to take care of
your diet, what you read, what you watch and with whom you are spending your
time with.
Ø Learn to keep your ego down sometimes our pride can become
our ego and that can destroy our way towards success and happiness.
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