6 LESSONS FROM THE BOOK "HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE"

1.DON’T CRITICIZE OR COMPLAIN

A person who criticizes others or complains about others will never be trusted.

 

2.PUT YOURSELF IN THEIR SHOES

The quickest way to develop empathy is to put yourself in others shoes. So, you’ll know how they feel.

 

3.THE ONLY WAY TO WIN AN ARGUMENT

The only way to win an argument is to avoid it. Never indulge in an argument. Never ever.

 

4.REMEMBER PEOPLE’S NAMES

Never forget the names of the people you meet and the people who supported you in your bad times and always address them using their names.

 

5.BE A GOOD LISTENER

Become a good listener. The only way to engage people is to be genuinely becoming interested in what they are talking about.

 

6.THE STRONGEST WEAPON

Your most strongest weapon is your smile. A person who smiles is far attractive than a person who always frowns.

 

 

5 WAYS TO DETOX YOUR MIND !

 

START UNFOLLOWING

Unfollow people who don’t add value in your life and who don’t make you feel empowered, informed or inspired.

BE SELECTIVELY SOCIAL

Always make and keep your social circle small.

ASK YOURSELF

Are there any dead relationships in my life that I’m holding on to?

START WRITING

Start writing on a daily basis anything which is in your mind to make the mind busy.

PRACTICE MEDITATION

Meditation can bring many positive health benefits into your life such as a new perspective on a situation, increased self-awareness, reducing negative emotions and thoughts, and focusing on the present while increasing your imagination and creativity. It seems good to get away from the noise of everyday life and have time just for yourself.

6 mindsets of healthy people !

 Ø Let’s go of what isn’t in your control. Don’t just say that you will do just do it.

Ø When hardships or any difficulties strike, open your vision to understand what is trying to say.

Ø Things to note while making a decision. Don’t wait too long. Don’t be hasty.

Ø Real strength has to gut to tell how you feel instead of hiding it inside and hurting yourself.

Ø Take ownership of your life by deciding what is best for you. It is not wise to wait for other’s validation for the thing you need.

Ø Work smarter not harder.

6 TIPS FOR HAPPINESS !

 

Ø        Expect from the right people not from the wrong ones.

Ø        Always do the things which will give you the benefits in the future.

Ø        Do not think everyone to behave as you do, people wake up differently every day.

Ø        Do not overthink because overthinking will kills happiness.

Ø        You can’t get everything overnight, great things take time.

Ø        Above all facts accept yourself that’s how you can get the happiest life.

6 HEALTHY TRAITS !

 

1.    When you start exchanging and experiencing with each other for cheap dopamine fixes you begin to feel miserable.

2.    Your habits are formed by you, and they shape your destiny.

3.    No one is ignoring you everyone is moving on and you should.

4.    Being afraid of and trying to avoid making the wrong move is the only wrong move you can make.

5.    You can’t progress if you are afraid to walk alone.

6.    Life is harder for the people who refuse to learn.

6 SUCCESS MINDSET IDEAS !

 

EVERYTHING STARTS IN MIND

Every action you do is directed by the thoughts you have and if you can control your thoughts, you can control your life.

TIME IS PRECIOUS

Life is the summation of time. You are accountable to yourself for the good and bad that you bring for yourself. Making organized time management can make your life more successful.

LIVING IN PRESENT

It won’t bring any good. Learn to live in present by making the best use of the moments you have, to build the moments you want.

BEING GRATEFUL

If you take a moment and think about all the blessings you have, you won’t be able to count them all. Life becomes easier, peaceful, and happier when you are grateful for the things you possess. You are a superpower, you are the architect of your own fate if you believe in yourself and dream of anything you can achieve.

HAPPINESS IS A PHASE

If you live, you will go through the phase of happiness and sadness. Both of these are normal parts of life. One teaches the meaning of the other. If you didn’t have sadness you would never know how happiness feels like.

 

6 HABITS OF HIGHLY PRODUCTIVE PEOPLE.

 1.  Remove the unimportant

2.  Work on an 80/20 rule

3.  Take strategic breaks

4.  Remove distractions

5.  Set a timeline

6.  Create your flow environment

7.  Use time pockets

8.  Automate

 

HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP WILL HAVE....

 

Have clear feelings for each other no lust feeling and yes your partner's feelings will be clear if it’s a healthy relationship. There is nothing to hide and there would be space but nothing like hiding and seek. If it is a genuine bond then your partner will love the current version of you not start comparing you from your past and help you to improve each other.

They won’t hate your flaws they will make sure you love them as well. And if you think they will be no conflict in relation you have to wake up from sleep. First, listen to each other understand them and see their condition then respond to them or guide them to do in a healthy conversation don’t try to impose anything on each other.

The person who really wants you or needs you won’t make you feel less by any means because they don’t go and start searching for what others have. They are happy for who you are and what you will be. A contented heart is a blessing.

5 BENEFITS OF POSITIVE THINKING.

1.    Positive attitude accelerates constructive thinking.

2.    Positive thinking adheres to optimism as one of the main characters of a person.

3.    A positive thinker is happy from inside and outside.

4.    A positive thinking enables us to build resilience when things don’t go according to our plan.

5.    A positive thinker has a great social life and relationships and positive thinking gifts self-motivation.

5 TIPS TO BUILD STRONG CHARACTER !

 

1.  Put your health first because you can do great things in life when you are healthy you cannot inspire anyone with sick character for the strong character you need to be healthy and focus on your mind and body.

2.  Always be aware of your weaknesses and strength and never show your weakness to anyone because people will start destroying you while attacking your weakness which will make an impact on your personality.

3.  Always have a plan for what you want to do in the future the road map and trust your intuition or gut feeling because this is a message from the universe.

4.  Set realistic goals based on high standards because when we think big we will get big.

5.  Work hard and do what you love because this thing will never make you tired you are doing what you love and anything that is impossible in this world to enhance your vocabulary and your thoughts. Thoughts become things.

6 TIPS HOW TO ORGANIZE YOUR DAY.

 Ø Wake up early, you will get enough time to work on  certain things because the mind works like a computer in the early morning and you will feel great when everyone is sleeping and you woke up and doing something for life.

Ø Always schedule your works based on priority and make the list of to-do things and list them according to the most important work of the day.

Ø Set a timer to complete each work as it increases your efficiency and your management skills to complete prior tasks in lesser time.

Ø Take time on each work and find an easy way to perform it and never waste time on making it difficult.

Ø Take proper breaks to relax your mind and body and always follow the time management rule in everything because when you take care of time and it will take care of you don’t waste it. Time is precious respect it.

Ø Don’t put in any work for tomorrow. Don’t put yourself in a procrastination state of mind don it now or never rule.